tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4431680608858521392024-03-13T03:51:48.411+01:00As Told By MoyinAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-44464228683801503522016-11-03T21:33:00.000+01:002016-11-03T21:33:04.280+01:00GIVING BACK: THE CHARITY 2016Hi Guys,<br />
Welcome to the month of November, less than 60 days to the end of the year.<br />
This year has been full of ups an downs but we are still here having overcome all odds. One of my goals this year was to volunteer for a charity and help put smiles on the faces of those who are less privileged, so when I saw the opportunity to do just that with The Charity 2016 organized by The Executives Initiative I practically jumped at it.What better way to end the year than by giving back and making the festive season memorable for those who do not have as much ..............<br />
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Here is what "TheCharity" and The Executives Initiative is all about:<br />
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Executives Initiative is a non- government organization, founded in 2011 by a group of well meaning youth; who felt the need to make an impact on their society. The main objective of the organization is to promote the spirit of compassion which is why our propelling force is the act of giving.<br />
The Charity is an Executives Initiative project which started from the need to share the spirit of Christmas with the less privileged.<br />
It has grown to be more than that because each year we realize that we can do just a little bit more to make the lives of those around us better.<br />
We have been running this project for the past three years and in this time we have visited many orphanages and homes for the less privileged, these include:<br />
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This year, our focus in on the Makoko community, we visited them last year and we were overwhelmed by the rate of poverty in their community. We were able to give back a bit but we intend to do more. From our interactions with the inhabitants we have found that the clothes and books that we probably have no use for will go a long way for that child in need.<br />
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Executive Initiative currently boasts of over 50 volunteers working towards this project and with your help it promises to be a Christmas to remember. <br />
For this to happen we need donations in the form of clothes, shoes, books, toys, provisions, food stuff ... anything that would touch a life and make Christmas memorable for someone there.<br />
We are accepting clothes, books, shoes, toys, provisions, food…everything.<br />
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To donate in any of these areas, please contact:<br />
Surulere – Bosola 07061532895<br />
Ikorodu – Bolu 07063617762<br />
Mowe – Iyanu 08139000727<br />
Gbagada – Tobi 08033208506<br />
VGC – Henri 0816895318<br />
Ikeja – Ipinayo 08030784830<br />
Yaba – Busayo 08162800285<br />
Ikoyi – Moyin 07039127208<br />
Ogba – Tomi 08060572029<br />
For sponsorships/partnerships, please call 07087759673<br />
Or send an email to <a href="mailto:executivesinitiative@gmail.com">executivesinitiative@gmail.com</a><br />
Let’s make Christmas memorable for some today!<br />
Thank you and God bless<br />
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is filled with endless opportunities and possibilities, who is as excited as I
am? On second thought I could have sworn yesterday we were in January, what is
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every month to celebrate bloggers that are doing exceptionally well in their
different niche, and I am super psyched that the first blogger spotlight feature
is none other than Adetola Adegbohun aka DeeDee of <a href="http://deedeesblog.com/">deedees blog</a></span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">If there is anything that makes
DeeDee (that’s what I call him) stand out is his immense passion for photo
blogging. I first came in contact with him
via instagram, he was one of the first bloggers to reach out when I initially
started my blog, but the thing is, Deedee is most passionate about giving a
voice to those that need to be heard. He visited the Makoko and Ilaje community
a while back and it really was inspiring to read about them. You can read all about it <a href="http://deedeesblog.com/2016/04/16/shocking-photographer-lagos-slum/">here</a> and <a href="http://deedeesblog.com/2016/09/13/my-amazing-ilaje-story-life-in-lagos-slum/">here</a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Here is a little about DeeDee….<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Detola is a 20 something year
old photoblogger who loves to write and take pictures! I believe this is what I
am born to do, as I have been unhappy for the major parts of my growing until
2016 when I decided to brace up and take the pen and ‘Elektra’ (My Camera)</div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Since then, it has always been
amazing for me. I feel so alive again doing these, like I was chosen to do
that!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Prior to when I started blogging, I had always wanted a name that would
stick in people’s mind. Something strange and weird for a guy. Such that I
would tell people and then they would in turn say, oh WoW, I thought you were
this and that! Deedee was actually carved out of my names Adetola Adegbohun…I
pulled out the first letter of both names, and there you have DeDe….adjusted to
DeeDee. How does it sound to you? Weird right?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Trust me, I have been able to engrain that name into people’s mind! Now
people would say, oh I thought you were a lady, I thought this, I thought that
and with that the name sticks on their mind and they tend to remember all the
time!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">What was the
motivating factor behind the birth of DeeDee’s blog and DeeDee’s Lens?<b><u><o:p></o:p></u></b></span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">I wanted a blog where I would just display all the weirdness about me.
Relay my past experiences, what I love to do, and how to project myself as
someone who wants to be heard. Someone who wants to picture life within my own
closet!</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">At a young age, I
fell in love with writing and photography. Early 2016, I just wanted to scribble something down, realizing how
gradually, I wasn’t really happy with what I was doing and how life was going.
I realized the need to begin to do things within my little confine. That was
when I thought about starting Deedee’s blog.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> I love to travel, yes….but not to
beautiful places! I want to be where people need things, because growing up, I
understood what it felt to ‘need’. Some of us had it fantastic and amazing.
Some of us did not. I realized that there are people
who even wanted what I still had despite myself not even having enough, a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd I told myself
that I would travel the length and breadth of the earth to document these
people and how they survive, knowing fully well that survival is for the fittest! </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">I also love events, being with happy people, having fun, wining and dining. The
sight of this excites me a lot and so I decided to start documenting events.</span></div>
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passion to keep going despite the obstacles that you might have encountered
since you started blogging?</span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Keep going? I have not even started. I mean, I am just 9 months old as a
blogger, and I believe I haven’t even started.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> Photography takes me to another
level! Holding the cam, documenting people and places give me an amazing
feeling. I can’t describe it, sincerely. I could stand throughout a whole just
taking pictures. I feel like there is a spirit behind it! To be sincere,
something pushes me, which I don’t know! That force, comes from the inside to
the outside. I feel like this is what is am born to do.</span></div>
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behind your Makoko and Ilaje documentary series? Any new documentary in the
works?</span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">I have at some point lived with people who obviously lack. Imagine a one
eyed man in the middle of the blind! A one eyed man wants to have two eyes, and
then you see the blind craving for your one eye! It was like that for me! I
grew up needing enough, yet knowing people had less than what I had and still
live happy within their means. It inspires me really, and I wanted to have a
way to create a visual story that would live with me for the rest of my life.
That was what brought about my Documentary photography!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Yes, there is one in the works, and I would announce soon for bloggers
and media people who want to be a part of it. Life should not just be about
making money, No? We should also be socially responsible too, and I would
intend to use this means to bring people on board who would only see the
stories but also affect positively!</span></div>
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and Why?</span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">I love Jide Odukoya a lot, even though I have not met him in real life.
I follow his photostory from documentary way back to documenting weddings and
it was amazing! He has got that eye for people and places and when you look at
his pictures. They are so unique and timeless. His way and style plays directly
into mine, and I see him as someone who would still help with directions as I
continue with my slum journey.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Hmmmn….Bayo Omoboriowo. He is an amazing individual too. He reeks of
passion and that never say die attitude I see in myself! Bayo started
photography out of nothing, he was just passionate and love to take pictures!
His story as a photographer is amazing and he is everything I want to do as a
young man. When you listen to Bayo’s story when he was starting out! Men! I
just see myself all over again! All the challenges I faced at Makoko when I
wanted to document! Was a script already written by Bayo, who saw his
challenges as a stepping stone.</span></div>
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those that want to venture into photo and documentary blogging?</span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">My advice, is let passion fuel your desire, but not to point of wanting
to kill yourself oh! I was on the canoe to Makoko and Badagry without a life
vest. It was crazy, I am that passionate. But my father called me to warn me not
to ever try it again! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">I will advise prospective photographers, do not think about money, I
have not even made a dime from photography. I just love it. Holding the camera
and capturing people and places! Just concentrate on your passion and love it. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Also be a people’s person. Interpersonal relationship is very key in
this regard, and don’t be forming ‘Butty’. In Bayo Omoboriowo’s voice, if you
form ‘Butty’ you are so on your own. Develop a rugged lifestyle, it would be a
part of your brand going into the future.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Instagram: @deedeesblog and @deedeeslens</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-76198016533754449592016-10-14T13:16:00.000+01:002016-10-14T13:36:22.724+01:00 Broken Hearts X Mended Friendships Hey guys,<br />
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This week went by really fast...... and the weekend is here , I can already smell it.</div>
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Today we would be talking mending broken friendships. This topic is dear to me because I have had an experience and it was not pretty.</div>
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<i> “I had hurt her a great deal, I should have at
least heard her out but no I just shut every single avenue to communicate with
her. Back then it felt like the right thing, but now that I sit back and
reminisce about the whole issues all I keep asking myself was how I got here.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>All I wanted to do was
turn back the hands of time, right my wrongs and have my friend back. I finally
got the opportunity and summoned the courage to ring her up and talk things
over. For those that know me, telling people sorry has never actually been my
strong suit but I made an exception in this case. <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Honestly, after
clearing the air I felt like a great burden had been lifted off my heart. It might
take a while to go back to the way we were or we might never, I don’t know but
one good thing came out of it all<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>I got my friend back………………”<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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Most of us are familiar with that feeling when someone close
to you has hurt you or you have hurt someone you never meant to real bad. That
hollow sinking hollow feeling in your heart that just becomes heavy with each
passing moment. Well I have had my fair
share of this feeling but one in particular ate at the deepest part of my soul
, just as locust ravishes crops and leave nothing behind. <o:p></o:p></div>
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From personal experience I have learnt to try as much as
possible to get these feeling off your chest, talk about it with someone if need be. </div>
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Also it
is important to always follow your heart and gut feeling, don’t take actions
because some people are doing it a certain way. If you follow the crowd, know
that you stand to bear the consequences of your actions alone. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Irrespective of the situation try as much as possible to
clear up things before they escalate and you and only you ends up bearing the burden of messing
things up.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Lesson do not mess up a great friendship due to pride, if its worth having then it should be definitely worth saving.<br />
Tell me about your experience with a broken friendship and how you dealt with it. Please do drop a comment.<br />
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Till next time</div>
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lots of love</div>
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Mo'</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-72636071459002459912016-09-29T20:04:00.001+01:002016-09-29T20:05:13.379+01:00Its Giveaway Season.......<span id="goog_1852371923"></span><span id="goog_1852371924"></span><span id="goog_1852371925"></span><span id="goog_1852371926"></span>Hey Guys,<br />
So our dear country, Nigeria, turns 56 in a couple of days. A lot of people might not see any reason to be thankful or celebrate due to the recent economic situation of the country, but I am thankful that despite all the issues coming up here and there, Nigeria is still standing as a nation. I believe Nigeria can weather any storm that comes its way but it requires a great deal or patience and perseverance. God on our side we will over come.<br />
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in other news, I got a couple of tickets to the live recording of the Highlites with Ik show. Highlites with Ik is a tv show hosted by popular radio personality and Big Brother Africa host, Ik Osakioduwa. The show tackles societal issues with a dose of humor and wit, also rib-cracking and hilarious skits that the everyday Nigerian can relate to.<br />
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So in the spirit of Independence I will be giving out this tickets to 5 (five) lucky followers.<br />
The rules of the giveaway are simple;<br />
1. Follow my handle on Instagram:<a href="http://www.instagram.com/moyin_ola">@moyin_ola</a><br />
2. Repost this picture on instagram and give a reason why you should win the ticket. Be creative<br />
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3. Include the hashtag #astoldbymoyingiveaway #highlightswithIk and please tag me on all reposted photo.<br />
4. Comment done on this picture on my instagram page after following all the rules.<br />
This giveaway is open to only residents in Lagos. Winners will be picked randomly and announced on sunday.<br />
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Wish you guys luck! Looking forward to your comments<br />
xoxoxo from Moyin<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-83274495487001095592016-09-24T11:26:00.001+01:002016-09-25T21:00:58.520+01:00SELF CONFIDENCE X ANKA WOMAN WITHIN WORKSHOP <div class="MsoNormal">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> I' III Hey guys,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">It’s the weekend again…. Yaaaayy<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">So last week I attended the Woman Within-Style and Confidence
workshop organized by A.N.K.A. This is
actually the first event I will attend since I started blogging, it’s a start
for me getting out of my comfort zone and meeting new people,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">First of all, let me tell you what A.N.K.A is all
about.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Anka is an image management and style strategy firm,
which offers services in image consultancy, style strategy and confidence
workshops for women development. The brain behind this great initiative is
Uzoamaka Ukegbu, who by the way is an amazing lady.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">We had guest speakers come in to speak to us on issues
ranging from self-confidence, to finding your style, dressing for your body
type and building your personal brand. The speakers were Bidemi Zakariyau, founder
and principal consultant of LSF PR, Wana Sambo, Creative director of Wana Sambo,
and last but definitely not the least, Bayo Oke-Lawal, founder and designer of
Orange Culture Nigeria. These people are super amazing and down to earth and
there was definitely a lot to learn from them. Mummy Anka i.e Uzo's mum was also there, Very supportive of her daughters dream,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The venue was conducive and the session was interactive, because we all got to share our experiences and you discover you
are not alone facing a particular issue bordering on accepting flaws and dressing to suit your body shape etc. We also played dress up.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Be positive, even if you're not feeling it quite yet.
Put some positive enthusiasm into your interactions with others and hit the
ground running, excited to begin your next project. Stop focusing on the
problems in your life and instead begin to focus on solutions and making
positive changes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you. Do away with friends that constantly put you down or don’t want you to be
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come into play. Just the simple act of pulling your shoulders back gives others
the impression that you are a confident person. Smiling will not only make you
feel better, but will make others feel more comfortable around you. Imagine a
person with good posture and a smile and you'll be envisioning someone who is
self-confident. Here accepting your flaws come into play. Learn to be
comfortable in your own skin. Never let people define who you are. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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communicate exactly that to people, not necessarily by telling them but in how
you dress, as well as carriage.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">3. <b>Don't accept
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Never give up. Never accept failure. There is a
solution to everything, so why would you want to throw in the towel? Make this
your new mantra. Succeeding through great adversity is a huge confidence
booster. Low self-confidence is often caused by the negative thoughts running
through our minds on an endless track. If you are constantly bashing yourself
and saying you're not good enough, aren't attractive enough, aren't smart
enough or athletic enough, and on and on, you are creating a self-fulfilling
prophecy. You are becoming what you are preaching inside your head, and that's
not good. The next time you hear that negativity in your head, switch it
immediately to a positive affirmation and keep it up until it hits the caliber of
a self-confidence boost. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">A big thank you to Anka for the workshop and I look
forward to the next workshop. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Till my next post <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Lots of love XOXOXO<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-48643992846975936892016-09-09T08:30:00.000+01:002016-09-10T11:45:15.302+01:00Phobias X HabitsX Obsessions <div style="text-align: justify;">
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Hello guys! Been long you saw me <i>*in Wande Coal's voice*</i></div>
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In order to serve you better, the blog had to undergo some maintenance but we are back.....</div>
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So...... my beautiful portable Adeola of <a href="http://portableisthenewhot.blogspot.com.ng/">Portableisthenewhot</a> tagged me on her post (you can view it <a href="http://portableisthenewhot.blogspot.com.ng/2016/09/phobias-habits-and-obsessions_6.html">here</a> ) about phobias, habits and obsessions. I could totally relate to a lot of things that she talked about.</div>
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Lets just say this post is about getting to know my weird self a little. Shall we,...</div>
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Hmmmmm... I had to sigh on this because, forget all the packaging and fine girl oh, if a rat, cockroach or lizard should get close to me, i shall disgrace myself. There was this one time back in secondary school (p.s I was a tomboy.... lmaoo), it was time for breakfast (bread and stew/egg) and we had to like form a queue to collect our bread. suddenly I felt like a twig was caught in my pinafore at the back so I tried to remove it, lo and behold it was an AGAMA LIZARD!!!!! Choi! you need to see the way I screamed almost pulling off my clothes...... in that moment I forgot to form abeg but I still formed bad guy afterward, like nothing happened </div>
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2. <b>Driving....</b></div>
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I don't even understand this my driving wahala, Once I get behind the wheels, my chest will just be doing somehow. It is like writing exam oh. I actually wrote a post on this and how I am still trying to overcome it, which you can read <a href="http://astoldbymoyin.blogspot.com.ng/2016/05/the-fear-factor-my-driving-lessons.html">here</a></div>
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3. <b>Not Being As Successful As I Aspire To Be</b> </div>
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This is more or less my biggest fear in life. I sometimes have this feeling, that what if things don't turn out as you have planned. Don't get me wrong I am a christian, and my Bible tells me that the plans God has for my life are of good and not of evil to give me an expected end but sometimes we humans can do stuff that deviate from this plan and cause us problems.I am just afraid of failing and most times due to this too scared to try.</div>
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4. <b>Any Form Of Public Speaking</b></div>
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I might be a talkative sometimes and all but I have a horrible case of stage fright. From class presentations back in school to any other scenario you can imagine. It like my brain just pauses when I face a crowd and my heart start doing a hundred heartbeats per 30 seconds. Even if I eventually speak, my voice comes out like I am crying and I start to jumble the whole thing </div>
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I have been told many a times by totally different unrelated people, that I have these weird but funny facial expressions I do when having a conversation. The funny thing about this is I don't even know when I actually do it, I think it is my way of reacting to the situation at that particular point in time. So this technically means I cant hide my reaction to BS and the likes..... not all the time though.</div>
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2. <b>Queen Procrastinator!!</b></div>
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Sigh.. this is not a habit I am proud of oh, infact I need serious cane for this.</div>
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I can procrastinate for the whole of Ondo state (I am a proud Ondo lady), from writing blog posts to even waking up in the morning, it is that bad. I want to stop it and I am trying really hard to. So God help me I will</div>
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3. <b> Smart Mouth</b></div>
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Sometimes I think I should shut up but i cant seem to.... Lmao. I have been told that I can be a bit smart mouthed. I mean you can't say nonsense to me and take a walk, noooo I have to say something oh and btw it wouldn't be nice. I have changed a bit now but the claws come out once in a while. I am still a very nice person despite this</div>
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4. <b>"I Will Call You Right Back"</b></div>
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A lot of us are familiar with this statement, when you probably have to cut a conversation short and you go "I will call you right back". The thing is I never call back, not because I do not want to, but I forget to. Sometimes I say it because I am probably tired of talking and do not want to sound rude- this happens on few occasions. We are all guilty of this at one time or the other</div>
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<b>OBSESSIONS</b></div>
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1. <b>My Phone, Social Media and so on</b></div>
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I totally agree with Adeola on this one. I am on my Phone like every minute, checking for latest updates on Instagram and the likes. As a blogger it is almost a necessity because you have to promote your post, come up with new ideas to drive traffic and all, asides that it can also used to stalk...just saying </div>
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2. <b>My Face and Makeup</b></div>
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I love my face and it annoys me that pimples even exist, like who did i offend really? So i am obsessed with my face and buying make up goes hand in hand. Like my makeup game is not so strong but I buy makeup as long as I see great reviews from trusted makeup artists. i literally have like three to four different concealers for just my brows oh ( ladies I am sure you can relate). I am just Obsessed with looking good i guess<br />
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So that's all about me, I hereby nominate Deedee of <a href="http://deedeesblog.com/">deedee's blog</a> , Wunmi of <a href="https://wumituase.wordpress.com/">TANG</a> and Boro of <a href="http://www.adeboro.com/">Adeboro</a><span id="goog_1558142892"></span><br />
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<b>Now it's your turn guys.....</b><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-2638674938991661452016-08-04T21:50:00.001+01:002016-09-10T11:46:45.277+01:00CURIOUS CASE OF A WALLFLOWER<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>I had always
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>Lol ... I
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>Shy,
Introverted, Melancholic, Anti-social were the words that best described me<o:p></o:p></b></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>I loathed
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>Well, can’t
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>I just might
be invincible, maybe or maybe not. I don’t know<o:p></o:p></b></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>Can’t anyone
see that I also breathe the same air as they do, or don’t I?<o:p></o:p></b></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: inherit; line-height: 115%;"><i><b>I guess I
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-25036142806269974722016-07-10T10:23:00.000+01:002016-09-10T11:47:36.594+01:00 THE LIEBSTER AWARD<br />
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Hi Guys!!! How's the weekend going? I hope it is going great tho.<br />
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First i would like to thank Adeola of <a href="http://portableisthenewhot.blogspot.com.ng/">portableisthenewhot.blogspot.com.ng</a> for nominating me for the Liebster Award Yipeee yaaay!!!!<br />
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I guess you are wondering what this award is all bout. Well the Liebster award is a fun way to recognize and promote new up and coming blogs of a good standard and the rules are really simple. What you have to do is...<br />
~ Thank the blogger who nominated you for the Liebster award<br />
~ Display the Liebster badge in your site<br />
~ Answer the questions you were sent <br />
~ Choose 5 (to 11) blogs to nominate <br />
~ Send 10 questions for your nominees to answer.<br />
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So i will be answering the question Deola sent me.<br />
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<li><b>Describe yourself in three words </b></li>
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Myself in three words? Three words aren't going to do my personality justice, but at the forefront of my list you have Fun, Weird and Annoying.<br />
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<li><b>Who are your blogger icons and role model</b></li>
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<b> </b>Cassie Ikegbune of <a href="http://www.cassiedaves.com/">Cassiedaves</a> made me want to be a blogger, I love her blog and I read it every now and then because there is always something to learn from her. I just find it amazeballs what she is doing.<br />
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<li><b>How do you cope with various challenges that come with blogging?</b></li>
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Well its kinda though but i have a couple of friends that actually encourage me to keep trying, they are more like my blogger support system in a way. BTW I love you guys... and also I am subscribed to quite a number of blogs and majority of them have tips on how to deal with blogging issues. I personally recommend every blogger to join the <a href="http://thebloggerpoint.com/">The Blogger Point</a> network. There is no such thing as too much learning<br />
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<li><b>Alex Ekubo, OC Ukeje and Gbenro Ajibade, Who would you Kiss, Slap and Marry in that order?</b></li>
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Yassss I will slap Alex Ekubo , Marry OC Ukeje cos he is BAE loool (he just had to up and get married in secret ugghhh) , and Kiss Gbenro ( cos he belongs to Osas and i love them)<br />
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<li><b>Mention 5 things you can't go a day without</b></li>
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My Bible, </div>
My Phone</div>
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Earpiece</div>
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Instagram, as a blogger not much of a choice</div>
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ahhhh yeah FOOD!!! I do not joke with this</div>
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<li><b>Asides being a blogger, What else do you do?</b></li>
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By day i work as a Training officer with a Management Consulting Firm, <a href="http://averti.com.ng/">Averti professional Managers</a>.<br />
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<li><b>Would you say that you're very consistent, okay or not consistent when it comes to blog posts?</b></li>
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Sigh honestly i am a habitual procrastinator, i have been inconsistent but i am working on becoming consistent. The habit of being consistent cannot be over emphasised<br />
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<li><b>Bounty, snickers or Toblerone?</b></li>
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Hmmm I love both Snickers and Toblerone ( can't a sister have both), but Toblerone for the win!!!<br />
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<li><b>Do you agree that it is possible to be a professional i.e career person as well as a professional blogger? Or does one affect the other?</b></li>
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Of course yes i do agree. Finding the balance between both is important so that one doesn't suffer because of the other.<br />
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<li><b>Does your family support your being a blogger or they are not even aware?</b></li>
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Well my parents don't actually know about my being a blogger but i think my sister's do and they have been supportive about it.<br />
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As against the rule of nominating no less than 5 cos i think most people have already done this</div>
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I nominate;</div>
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Demilade of Demilhadey</div>
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Boro of Adeboro<br />
Wunmi of TANG<br />
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These are your questions<br />
- <b>What inspired your blog or niche?</b><br />
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- <b>In one word describe yourself</b><br />
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<b>- Chocolate or Red Velvet cake</b><br />
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<b>- What is your pet peeve when it concerns people?</b><br />
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<b>- Which would you pick, N1,000,000,000 or go back in time to fix your mistakes?</b><br />
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<b>- How do you deal with the issue of developing content for your blog posts</b><br />
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<b>- What is that one accessory you cannot do without and why?</b><br />
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<b>- Asides blogging, what is your favorite past time?</b><br />
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<b>- What's the worst advice you have ever given someone</b><br />
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<b>- What is your favorite Nigerian food?</b><br />
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That's all guys, awaiting your posts.<br />
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XOXOXOX<br />
- Moyin<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-71532315631327513142016-06-24T23:28:00.002+01:002016-09-10T11:47:59.285+01:00 LOVE, EMOTIONS AND PUNCHES……<br />
<span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; text-align: justify;">Ok Guys! Calm down and please don’t go about punching.
This is not in any way to suggest that punching a girl is not an abuse. Gender
bias? Ok – babes be mindful too. Even our subtly hitting of a guy’s chest when
we are in love and they just won’t get it might just be termed as an
abuse.</span><span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; text-align: justify;">Well I don’t want to exaggerate
but abuse has been fantastically and corruptibly justified these days. She hit
me first he said – Charlatan!</span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Abuse is abuse and there is the general perception
that a man or woman have to hit you for it to be termed abuse. Someone said in
his phony yankee accent ‘I hit her yea but errrm erm I didn’t do any damage to
her body – I couldn’t close my mouth but I managed to murmured his deserved
comments in my native language ‘Oloshi,
Oloriburuku”. Well it has to be inaudible and in my native language. It is
being cerebral. I can’t afford any damage to my fine face<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Get it - if you ever thought to hit or have attempted
to hit, before you came to your senses or your senses came to you. You need
help and urgently. And if you are the victim or the potential victim, start
running. Please run like ‘kunta kinte’ in Roots. Ok he was caught. Please run
like Forrest Grump. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">So I saw this statistics one of those days I was
carelessly going through random stuff. A university don did a research on 1.5m
people that was abused and he said 96% of those cases were emotionally abused
and only 4% have been physically abused. It immediately dawn on me. So does
that mean Titi, Chika, Tola, Hauwa, Ayo and even I have been abused
emotionally????<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We all know about domestic abuse, rape and all other
forms of physical abuse. It’s quite appalling that a lot of these cases seem to
be coming up these days with even gory details that send shivers down your spine.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In all this there is a worse form of abuse going
around today and if not curbed, could be more dangerous than physical
abuse. Emotional Abuse!!!!!!!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Being “emotionally abused” means, being regularly
criticized, threatened, victimized, intimidated and manipulated by someone
supposedly a partner, friend etc.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The movie <i>Mr&Mrs</i>,
where the husband <i>(Joseph Benjamin)</i>
constantly demoralizes his wife <i>(Nse Ekpe
Etim)</i>. She lost every shred of self confidence in her thanks to his taunts,
but she was able to teach him a lesson or two and stop the abuse. Now that is a
movie. In reality, this form of abuse makes people suicidal, depressed, and
even murderous.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now I am not saying only women suffer emotional abuse,
oh men do too. I mean there are some
sharp-mouthed women hian, that can destroy a man’s entire existence with just
the words that come out of their mouth.
Ok, you earn more than your partner, there is no need to rub it in each
other’s face or broadcast to the world like radio Katanga.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Alright, so I dated this guy sometimes back, now I
don’t know if insecurities causes you to abuse people emotionally and stuff but
he was insecure. He didn’t like my friends because he always said they would
advise me against him. I needed his permission to go out, even with my friends.
I mean my only friends were girls. I couldn’t say some certain things to him or
talk to him a certain type of way. I on the other hand felt oh he is just being
caring, I never saw it signs of emotional abuse. Basically I lost myself just
trying to please him and not get him upset, because then it takes a while for
him to forgive.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It took me a couple of years before I realized that I
had lost my essence trying to please someone else. I didn’t leave because I
felt oh where do I start from and all and most importantly I didn’t want to be
alone. <s><o:p></o:p></s></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You might be in an emotionally abusive relationship;
if you have to constantly ask for permission to go on a girls day out or to
even go out at all and you guys aren’t even married yet, biko it’s a sign,
Flee! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Your flaws, shortcomings being thrown in your face
every day, even in front of friends, please take a walk, if u need slippers sef
I fit give you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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true, but you can’t seem to make him see the truth, instead you apologize so he
always seems write and you wrong….. Sigh my words for you, it is time to move
on<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">They threaten to break up or leave you because they
know you will beg, which you always do, Haaaa my brethren, please you deserve better.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">They see your opinion as irrelevant, and wouldn’t
condone any form or disrespect, lool pele oh elder, but disrespects you at a
whim and treats you like a child, like the Israelites, start walking. Yes
walk-away <s><o:p></o:p></s></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If you recognize any
of the signs of emotional abuse in your relationship, be honest with yourself
so you can regain power over your own life, stop the abuse, and begin to heal. <s><o:p></o:p></s></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The symptoms of emotional
abuse simply put EA is worse than TB (if you doubt me visit a patient suffering
from Tuberculosis). Its manifestation are in the form of illness, emotional
trauma, depression, or anxiety. You simply can’t allow it to continue, even if
it means ending the relationship. You cannot change him/her. Don’t compete with
Jesus and if you are married or have sworn to an oath, the Lord is your muscle.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If you are an abuser
you should and can change if you admit and honestly want to. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "century gothic" , sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="lr_dct_ph">ˈɡratɪtjuːd/</span></div>
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the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.</div>
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"<i> I stare out the car window and i see him with the blank expression on his face. </i></div>
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<i>He couldn't believe his luck. </i></div>
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<i>He worked from dawn to dusk and nothing exciting hardly happened.</i></div>
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<i>Until today.....</i></div>
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<i>He stared at the 1000 naira note in his hand,</i></div>
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<i>He asked the man in the Range Rover, what have i done to deserve this,</i></div>
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<i>I only cleaned the windshield of your car.</i></div>
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<i>The man looks at him, collects the 1000 naira note back and brings out a wad of 1000 naira notes, hands it over the young guy.</i></div>
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<i>That was it! he lay flat on his belly on the busy tar road just to show gratitude.</i></div>
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<i>Just one statement caught my attention; No one has ever done this for me; what have I done to deserve this .</i></div>
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<i>He moves to a secluded corner, goes on his knees, shedding tears of joy, praying and thanking God".</i></div>
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Firstly, the above is a first hand true event I witnessed with my own two eyes.</div>
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This event got me thinking about how much gratitude we show for all the things we get that we don't actually deserve or even the things we do deserve. </div>
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The act of gratitude is gradually fading out in our generation. </div>
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We take for granted the the things that matter most down to the even the littlest irrelevant things.</div>
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I remember my childhood days when if i was given a 100 naira note, I would be more than joyous. Now fastforward to the little children of these days, give them a 100 naira note and they just have that "what is this one?" kind of look on their face instead of thanking you.</div>
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Think about it how often do you show gratitude to God, your parents, even those that help you with those little things you consider irrelevant. </div>
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My people (Yoruba people) have a saying " Eni ba dupe ana, o di dandan ko ri omiran gba", translated in English it means "Whosoever give thanks for things received will definitely receive another". </div>
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In all things no matter how big or little, <b>always</b> give thanks (keyword: ALWAYS).</div>
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Imbibe the positive attitude of gratitude and sit back, relax and enjoy the benefits of being grateful</div>
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P.s I was nominated for the Liebster Award by my friend Deola of portableisthenewhot.blogspot.com.ng</div>
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Have a blessed and amazing weekend. Till next time xoxoxoxo</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-36992514482168654012016-06-01T22:24:00.000+01:002016-09-10T11:48:54.470+01:00PERFECT IMPERFECTION<br />
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HI!!!!<br />
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I know i have been MIA for a while but i promise from now on to be consistent with my posts.<br />
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This is something i wrote a while back and i just decided to share it again.<br />
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<i><span id="goog_2030147879"></span><a href="https://draft.blogger.com/"></a><span id="goog_2030147880"></span>"She stares at the reflection in the mirror, and all she sees are physical imperfections i.e large ears like jumbo the elephant, large nose etc. She doesn’t feel good enough for anyone not even herself. All walls of self worth, self esteem, self confidence broken down by negative comments and downsizing attitudes from people around".</i><br />
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We all have felt this way one way or another because those around us that we think matter make us feel somewhat inadequate. It doesn’t neccesarily have to be physical inadeqacies, it could also be in academics, emotionally. It should be noted that as humans we are perfect in our imperfections.<br />
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We sometimes work at perfecting these flaws but trying to change who you are, in order to be the image someone else has of you, not what or who you actually are is just wrong and sad.<br />
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Know this, YOU are perfectly imperfect. Steve Maraboli says ” S<i>top trying to fix yourself; you are not broken! You are perfectly imperfect and powerful beyond measure</i>” . Learn that your imperfections are what makes you amazing and beautiful.<br />
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Even the Bible agrees in Gen 1:31, ” God saw all that he had made, and behold, it was very good” .<br />
So whatever it is just know you are amazing just the way you are…..<br />
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Please drop your thoughts and comments below.<br />
Thank you.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-3254096094968486712016-05-03T22:10:00.001+01:002016-09-10T11:49:25.810+01:00The Fear Factor- My Driving lessons ExperienceHi guys!<br />
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Been a while since my last post. Wow! now i know how hard it is for bloggers, coming up with contents for their blogs.<br />
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So basically, everyone that knows me know that I have a problem with driving. A problem in the sense that i am so scared of being on the same road with other cars because I feel I would hit someone's car and believe you me, no level of English or begging will help such situation.<br />
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To overcome this I began taking driving lessons but somewhere midway I abandoned it because I lost hope in myself. After that I never tried going back to my lessons, and then i got talking with someone one day and it dawned on me that fear is actually a state of mind, whereby you lose hope in a situation without even giving yourself the benefit of doubt.<br />
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I am going to share a few lessons I have learnt from my personal experiences with fear. <br />
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<li><b>Never underestimate the power of self-talk- </b>I remember the first time I heard about this, i thought to myself, does this even make sense? Fast forward to present day, anytime I feel nervous or afraid, I self-talk myself with positive words of encouragement. When you wake up in the morning start positively and you will see it goes a long way in making an almost perfect day.</li>
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<li><b>Belief in oneself</b>- This is actually very key. Personally, I recall a time in my life I had little or no self confidence in myself. Everyone says "no, you can't do this stuff or I don't think you can do this" and i just outright agree without even arguing. This thought limited my abilities to try new things or to even challenge myself. </li>
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It took me almost a year to actually sit and write my first post, before even having the courage to set up the blog, because I saw myself as not having the ability to write anything meaningful and also that no one will be interested in what i have to write. So believe in yourself and experience a multitude of opportunities waiting to be unlocked.<br />
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<li> <b>Stop Procrastinating</b>- It is a popular saying that "Procrastination is a thief of time". I know for one that it isn't just a saying because from my driving lesson experience, I procrastinated before I started and even after taking a break, it took almost two months for me to finally get my head together and start over. By Procrastinating, a lot of life changing opportunities that are unknown to us are lost and if you are lucky, they just might come around again but most times they are lost forever.</li>
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I am hopeful that this post speaks to the innermost part of your fear and encourages you to break barriers because something great lies ahead waiting for you.<br />
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Till my next post...... have a blessed week<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09771261111011170867noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-443168060885852139.post-28886850685067471852016-04-14T08:23:00.000+01:002016-09-10T11:49:58.079+01:00Days of Our Lives<span id="goog_2090203280"></span><span id="goog_2090203281"></span><span id="goog_2090203282"></span><span id="goog_2090203283"></span>I know a lot of people are thinking, "isn't that the title of a soap opera? So cheesy"<br />
Well, I just borrowed the title *lol*. I decided to try my hands on this for the first time, so here goes:<br />
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Wake up 5:00am, prepare for your 8am- 6pm job.<br />
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Half of the day gone and you do not even sense the pangs of hunger calling out your name,<br />
all you feel is fatigued, overworked, even a little pissed off.<br />
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Someone once told me, "You do not work for an organisation, you should work for an institution called <span style="font-size: small;"><b>MYSELF</b></span>", well this is true because you gain a lot of experience in order to build up yourself for the future.<br />
But in a sitiuation where by you have had a classsic day of "Horrible Bosses 101" and all you want to do is cry or scream till your lungs hurt just to let go of the madness going on in your head,what do you do? do you just up and quit(bear in mind that you haven't gotten another job) or do you persevere. Personally I have learnt to take to God in prayer, take a deep breath and watch God work his wonders. This works all the time (I have the bestest father)<br />
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Believe you me i hate working under pressure, but in the job society, that is like a must because bosses will be bosses..... <br />
So what is the koko (moral lesson) of this whole ranting.........<br />
Its just know and develop the mindset that you cant work under someone forever , you eventually have to branch out on your own, and do not be surprised that those horrible days you had will serve as stepping stone in your journey to greatness.<br />
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A word of advice : "Make your passion i.e what you derive joy doing, your job. Only then can you actually say you love your job- Moyinnola<br />
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